我们的命不好，意识系统不在一个领域内，因此，如果，你正处于痛苦的悲伤，可我大概仍旧是无法感受的到的。
i could not accept your pain,through you might be feeling painful,so i have to let it gone,and i please god could ease the memorize i send to you,oh,i want to say,i wish the missing to you could be eased.It had one pre-condition putted inside it,it is that1.as one person,we all could feel one kinds of lacking(匮乏感） in lacan·s meaning，but some of us could stay friendly and happy,and we could feel the reality sended them and create them；but for others were not,for some people,you just could not see through the sadness behind the smile,you could not read their lacking feeling（message，后加） and you thought that they were (既得利益者？ that will be,that was very painful you stay together with in each other ,so one(这个有点像是love）of you has to let go and must go,to the hand,
21.一些无法共融的感受